Thanks, it's hard to figure out what's usual.

That's an idea. It's kind of an appallingly large amount of money to take out of checking at one time, but it has to come out eventually, anyway, all at once or in bits and pieces doesn't really matter.

H needs to call about moving his next appointment; I told him I need to talk to her about the cash situation, so we'll see what she says. I doubt he brought up the problem with him carrying cash when they talked.