multipurposegoddess: (Simpsons)
 I am finally getting the quiche I meant to have for breakfast into the oven, so it will be dinner. I'll have the corned beef boiled dinner tomorrow, I guess. That'll make a good shabbos feast.

I didn't make it for breakfast because, well mainly because I forgot to take out the frozen has browns to thaw overnight. So I had toast with pub cheese (which I forgot had horseradish, which is usually not something I want for breakfast, but it was fine, really). And then the rest of the day was All About the Front Yard, so lunch was yogurt, followed by a substantial snack of some kind of mini hot dog in puff pastry appetizer that I impulse bought yesterday. Frozen appetizers, how I love them.

Anyway, front yard. Yesterday, or maybe the day before, I got a notice saying my yard was in violation of code whatever that requires vegetation to be less than 8" high and not impeding pedestrians on the sidewalk or driving down property values by being unsightly. Which is meant to combat blight but, seriously, my yard has been much worse. But it has been a month or so since I mowed it, and a really long time since I aged. It was pretty wet yesterday and I was taught not to mow wet grass as it will just lie down beneath the blades and not get cut, and it will start raining again tonight and on into the foreseeable (by my weather app anyway) future. So, today I mowed, edged, and swept up clippings. 

Now, one of the reasons I go so long between mowing is because every time I do work in the front yard, a neighbor comes by to chat with me. Their nice people, and friendly, but I am usually not wanting to chat, so I do a lot more work in the backyard than the front. And, of course, today someone did, too, but it was at least one of the neighbors whose name I know (a few houses have changed hands recently).

Pretty much everyone on the cul-de-sac is mowing their lawns, and it sounded from overheard conversation as if maybe I was not the only one to get a notice. Interesting. I hope this isn't going to be a frequent thing, I like my yard a little unkempt, aside from the laziness and not wanting to interact with people aspects.

When I was done I put Walter on a long lead so he could roam the yard and sat on the porch with a beer. Not bad. He wanted to stay out longer than I did, I'll try to accomodate him better in the future. He is a dog who loves to roll in fresh cut grass, after all, and with the super long lead I think he forgot he wasn't completely free - he never reached the end of it and got pulled up short, that I saw. Which is nice, also, that he can be content to stay in the yard like that.
multipurposegoddess: (Tattoo)
Took the Mac Mini over to the Genius Bar where they confirmed it has data architechture, structural, something issues. The software is seriously corrupted. And the disk drive is frelled, which explains why I couldn't boot up from my install discs. They're fixing it, because that's way cheaper than a new mini. I looked at portable external hard drives while I was there - they're very cute and would be practical for taking with the laptop if I were to ever go somewhere. I also liked the under the counter iPad mount, but $70 seems like a lot to free up a little counter space from being temporarily used.

Which reminds me (the possibility of ever going anywhere, that is), the new coffee shop / roastery had it's grand opening yesterday. I didn't go, because I figured there would be a crowd and coffee after 4 pm (when the opening started) is not really a good idea for me. And it's probably later than I want to be drinking coffee today already, too. Tomorrow I'm supposed to start a detoxifying juice fast, but I'll also need to get my bagels boiled and baked (I don't think I should make the dough wait 3 days, though maybe it would be fine sitting in the fridge for that long. My fridge is kind of ridiculously cold for not being a freezer, and my bagels have historically not risen as much as I would like. Hm) and I doubt I'll do that and NOT eat one. But I'll get in there sometime this week and check it out. I have high hopes - it's 3-4  blocks away, conveniently located for visiting during a dog walk and opens onto a courtyard where I certainly hope I can have Walter with me while I leisurely sip a latte. I've walked through there with him on many a morning, but that's been when everything was closed, so I don't actually know the official policy on dogs in the courtyard. I got a sample of their coffee at the Christmas Marketplace and it was yum, so even if it's somewhere I have to go sans chien, I'll probably be spending some time there.

Decided to swing by the cemetery on my way home.  It's nice that it's easy enough to get to that I can do that on a whim. H's marker is in place and looks it's supposed to, as far as I can tell. I suppose I should call the memorial chapel and set up the unveiling, but it's still 4 months away so it's hard to feel any urgency about it.
multipurposegoddess: (Default)
  • Woke up at 5:45 this morning and have stayed awake since. Kind of neat
  • Grass was all frosty and my little water garden was iced over. The oranges are turning orange, like they are supposed to in response to frost.
  • Stupid dog got into the neighbor's yard somehow. I shouldn't stay stupid, it's his smarts that are the trouble, but goddammit dog, stop that. I don't know how he did it, though that is the fence we didn't replace, yet, and I'm not terribly surprised it's permeable even though I can't find the hole. Unfortunately, these are neighbors I don't know AND no one seems to be home, so I can't really go into their yard to get him. I am trying to ignore him and hope he comes back on his own before too long, but I am all anxious about it.
  • Had lunch at 10:30 - consequence of being up so early, I imagine. I don't really mind that one.
  • Tripped over the cord of my one and only incandescent bulb using lamp, pulled the lamp off the nightstand, and busted the shade. Bah.
  • One of the times I went out to try to get the dog to come in I wore socks and no shoes because I am dumb and now my feet are wet and cold.
  • (2:35 PM) He finally came back! Lost his neckerchief, but I've got all my critters inside, which I like to do early when there's likely to be fireworks outside.
  • And another 30-day extension for Prudential. That's three. If they send me another one end of January I'm gonna have to call and ask WTF they are investigating for so long.
  • Fresh-baked bread still warm enough to melt butter is just utterly delicious.
multipurposegoddess: (Default)
I need to go get something notarized (again), but I need to shower and put on clean clothes before I can do that (I mean, that's just polite, right? This is not entirely me being avoidant, this is also me recognizing that I am currently really and truly not fit to be among the humans because of being seriously unwashed). But I am not jumping right into that, oh no, not when I can write up a nice little journal entry.

I did this Shambhala retreat over the weekend. Long story short: it was worthwhile for me, I think. I feel better about the whole lack of goals and inability to accomplish anything  thing I have going on. I may get more specifically navel-gazy about it later.

I am so out of it today, a bad combination of bouncing from one thing to another and the majority of the "things" I am "doing" actually not being anything - like, I've been trying to make myself lunch for about an hour and a half but get distracted by thinking about the pros and cons of going back to bed. Also been composing this post for maybe as much as two hours and I suspect it is not getting more coherent and content-filled as I go, so maybe I will go ahead and post and at least have one less thing competing for my attention.

Edited at 4 PM to add: have decided that girding my loins and making two phone calls and sending an e-mail will have to count as enough for today. Taking the actions required by the responses to said communications will have to wait for tomorrow.
multipurposegoddess: (Default)

I should have the death certificate in another couple of weeks, and presumably will have my financial situation sorted out not too long after that (my current situation, that is - I will at least know what I have to work with) but I feel the need to sort out some what-ifs and conditionals, So:
Expandthis will probably be very boring )

Meh, this is not getting me anywhere.
multipurposegoddess: (Default)
So. Eight weeks in. Time, I think, to start forcing myself to do stuff.

I expect to spend a lot more time deciding which stuff to force myself to do than actually doing anything, but still. The main things I want to concentrate on are: paperwork (still waiting on the death certificate, but I can start getting things ready for when I have it and minimize delays on my end), exercise, getting my house in order in a literal sense, and social obligations (returning some of those messages that have been piling up, mostly, possibly actual seeing of people but I'm not going to push on that immediately). Care and feeding of the dog, cats, bees, plants, and myself, of course, but I've been doing pretty well with that already, and pretty well is good enough.

Somewhat to that end, I'm going to see Avenue Q tonight with my parents. we bought the tickets in the Spring, so of course i have an extra. I can't remember if I already bought 2011 season tickets; I think I did, so I'd best get used to going to the theater with an empty seat, I guess. I'm not sure how well I will deal with this, but at least it's a funny show, right?
multipurposegoddess: (Default)
 This week has been a million years long.

My fault, probably, I am being all isolated. Partially because the little bit of sociability I've mustered just drained me every time, and partially because I'm just so sad and feel like I'm all dead-husband-liked-carrots all the time and I don't want to inflict that on anyone.

Still no death certificate. It's on the early side of the estimate for getting one, I guess.

Bees are still on the same three frames they started on. I just hope there is a queen in there laying eggs.

I haven't finished tidying up the broken branches out front. Sadly, the big impediment there is the likelihood of friendly neighbors stopping by to say hi. Peppers should probably be picked, and the tomatoes are ripening apace. Have to check the corn, there's an ear or two that may already be ready, which seems incredibly early to me but the ways of corn are mysterious.
multipurposegoddess: (Default)
What was happening with me yesterday? Oh, right:

  • 12:03 Got one branch of drip irrigation put together. Not sure if it works yet. I suspect my extensive use of soaker hose may be a problem.


  • Little dude from across the street (coincidentally named Chris) helped me. Every once in a while I'd hear is mom call out "Are you bothering her?" and he'd yell back "I'm helping!". He apparently came and knocked on the door the next day (while I was in the shower) and asked my husband if I was going to be coming outside soon. Pretty funny.

  • 17:39 One reason I'm happy to live in Suisun: bit.ly/aaaNHt


  • The town's fiscal soundness was actually one of the things that convinced us that buying here would be okay. It's a good thing to be reminded of. Sadly, I'm seeing more empty storefronts and Store Closing signs lately, which has me worried, but the civic events are still going strong so hopefully we'll get some businesses that are not restaurants or salons (I'm pretty sure we are saturated with both at this point) to open up. It's a very pleasant downtown to walk around in, I'd love to be able to do some practical shopping while I'm walking!
Automatically shipped by LoudTwitter
multipurposegoddess: (Cozy)
I am FINALLY getting some dumplings made. I have cauliflower leek soup simmering on the stove with the dumping dough chilling in the fridge, along with ha chicken and some ingredients to make Chicken in a Pot. We'll eat well tomorrow, and probably for a few days after since I didn't cut the recipe down any...

Freezer is good and full of baked goods. It's time to make pancakes and bagels again in a few days, and there are still some in the freezer from last time! So Operation Sourdough is looking very successful. Passover is going to throw me all off, but I'll worry about that when I have to.

Operation Eat Out on Saturdays sort of got underway. We did go out last Saturday, but the new place we wanted to go to had a 45 minute wait, so we went to the Main Street Bar and Grill, which is actually a fancier place than it sounds, French fusion, maybe? Anyway, it's been our go-to nice place, we've been there q fair amount, but they changed the menu and the decor a little bit recently, so it wasn't too same-old same-old going there. And it's alway good. We'll make reservations this Saturday, I think.

ExpandI don't mean to save up all my words and then go all tl:dr, but that seems to be how it works out... )

So, nesting is going well, I guess. I may be ready to branch out into other things soon, we'll see.
multipurposegoddess: (Penguin Mountain)
Had our Relationship Therapy session today and my god was that ever exhausting. But good. The first thing we have to do is figure out how we're going to proceed - I tend to feel like doing anything every single week gets oppressive pretty fast, but we'll see. We get a sort of bulk rate price on H's individual sessions plus the couples stuff, so that makes it a little easier, financially (heh, the first first things we have to do is work out our budget, actually, but it's largely to figure out how much therapy we can afford). And time seems to have slowed down a little, lately, so maybe "weekly" won't seem quite as often as it sometimes has.

So, I should go to the gym and pick up the Diet To Go food but I really want to crawl into bed. We were talking about going up to Davis for a meditation-focussed meeting tonight, too, but I don't think that is happening. So sleepy.

Oh, got the new license plates. Put the rear one on at the DMV, picked up screws to attach the front one but haven't tried to do it, yet. It's not really obvious how this will work. But the car has to go to the shop for a check up on the recently installed engine, so maybe they can give us some pointers or take pity on us and do it for us. However we do it, once it's done the Toyota is completely legal. The Volvo's registration is due soonish and it's overdue for oil change/tire rotation/etc, but that should all be far less fraught.

Next house thing is probably putting up curtains in the living room - they arrived yesterday.That gets the living room within tolerance of being done - I have at least one more piece of art that I'd like up on the wall, but I'm not sure exactly where I want it, and the yellow bench will probably not work out blocking the closet-is-actually-the-back-of-the-oven forever, but it's okay for now.
multipurposegoddess: (Penguin Mountain)
Merry christmas to everyone who celebrates Christmas and Happy Friday to everyone who celebrates Fridays!

Good day yesterday. I slept in a bit, had a nice soak in the tub (I meant to use a Bubble Melt but by the time I got the box o' Lush goodies unpacked enough to find the Melt, the tub was full, puttered around the house, and watched Death at a Funeral. What a strange little movie. Funny, but odd.

Headed over to my parents' in the afternoon and helped my mom finish up making dinner. We had a vegetarian "Winter Solstice Pie", which was delicious - a wintry mix of vegetables (turnips, sweet potatoes, brussel sprouts, mushrooms, I think some other things) in what turned ot to be a tasty vegan crust. Said crust didn't really have any structural integrity, but it sure tasted good, and we ended up just using it for the bottom of the pie so by the time we were scooping out the slices and eating it the lack of structural integrity did not matter at all. Also a fruit salad (didn't notice when we were discussing the menu beforehand that we were having veggie pie and fruit salad...) that my mom always makes for occasions - simple but yummy. Then my dad made a fire since it was NOT a Spare the Air day quite yet (today is), and we sat in front of the fire and chatted and they gave me some little gifts and my mom opened one of hers that was a collection of blooming teas - those ones that open up into a flower shape when you add hot water. So she got out a see-through teapot and we made a pot of that - white tea with peach flavor, mostly tastes like peaches but by the bottom of the pot got some tannins and tea-flavor. I had previously given my mom a train-shaped muffin tin, so she had used that to make a chocolate cupcake train, which was very cute and also tasty. Also lime pudding, made of the limes from her backyard, so good.

Henry's flight was delayed a bit by weather, not as bad as it might have been, but we had some extra time before I needed to leave to pick him up. So we played a few rounds of Geographic Pursuit, which sounded cumbersome and comlicated when we read through the rules, but was actually quite fun. Mom won by a lot.

I went and picked up Henry, leaving the airport with him and his bags around 11:30. Traffic was not bad getting home, but we were both hungry so we went in search of an open fast-food restaurant. Poor guy at Jack-in-the-Box was still working and provided us with sustenance, which we brought home and ate while watching the season premiere of Scrubs (my DVR is quite full...), and then blessed sleep.

We'll be off to see Sherlock Holmes pretty soon, and then Avatar the IMAX 3D Adventure this afternoon. With luck, there will be someplace handy to the theater to have lunch at in between (how's that for ending with prepositions?)

It is nice to have the Henry home. Now I have to adjust to sharing the comforter again, but my breakfast and coffee just appeared for me this morning, and that's always nice. I've gotten some good leads on working through our Stuff - Behavioral Couples Therapy and Interpersonal Neurobiology both sound excellent. I hope we can find practitioners that are not too far away. After the holidays, no doubt.

Walter is very happy to have both his monkeys back. The cats seem pleased as well, though they are less demonstrative about it.
multipurposegoddess: (Default)
What was happening with me yesterday? Oh, right:

  • 18:42 The fancy emory board I thought I bought turns out to be a nail buffer. The words "nail buffer" on the packaging should have given me a clue
  • 18:43 Now my nails are all irregularly shaped and raggedy, but shiny.
Automatically shipped by LoudTwitter

Yesterday was apparently Cry for No Reason Day. The manicure business didn't set me off, but I went by George's Feed & Seed after signing the paperwork to get the Toyota fixed (not totalled! So happy!) and found that it mostly doesn't meet my needs but I thought I would pick up some dog food since I was there, got up to where you pay and asked if they take debit cards. "No," he says "there was a sign". "Oh, I didn't see it," I say as I check through my purse looking for my checkbook, which I don't have. "Right by the door as ayou came in. Big sign," he repeats. I apologize and leave and burst into tears on the drive home.

Yeah, I don't understand it.

Then I went to see Hats! with my folks (we have season tickets to the theater putting it on) and on the drive over for some reason I got to thinking about Spike Lee movies and why I haven't watched When the Levees Broke (I have complicated feelings about it) and once again with the crying, so I had to sit and pull myself together for a couple of minutes in the car when I got to the theater. Making me weepy again typing it up. Weird.

But dinner was great and the show was okay - very earnest and a little uneven (in the writing, the performances were quite good) with a couple of really cute numbers. The thin thread of plot that held the whole thing together was not really up my alley, but not terrible.
multipurposegoddess: (Default)
Have dropped off H at the airport. Fairly certain he actually got on the plane.

I kind of put my life on hold for the past week, just dealing with stuff that needed doing immediately. Of which there was plenty, as H got into a car accident on Wednesday and the toilet overflowed last night (just before my parents dropped by, so my dad ended up helping with that because that's just the kind of guy he is) and there were myriad important conversations we had to have every time I turned around.

He'll be staying with his mom. The guy she's been seeing for a while has actually moved in with her - not only did she not tell us this, she barely told us she was dating someone. H was more upset about that than I would have guessed - when she dated Alan it didn't seem to bother him so much, but this is actually impacting his plans, so maybe that's some of it. His mom is having a hard time with all this, also, she's been laboring under the misapprehension that H is "fixed" since New Bridge.

Anyway, I've got some time now to figure out what my life looks like when it isn't accommodating H. I'm looking forward to that
multipurposegoddess: (Default)

Two weeks ago, I got an hour of exercise a day. This week and last week, more like half an hour. That is not the direction I want to go. I'm not sure if I can just jump back to that, but it's not like I'm doing intense, high-impact anything. In fact, I did get in an hour today and yesterday, so maybe I can just keep that up and start increasing again, soon.

Met with our therapist today, mostly discussed H's plans for dealing with his recurring problem. She's going to do one-on-one sessions with him twice a week and we'll continue with the couple's counseling monthly, see how that goes. I feel pretty good about that decision, we reached it together, we took a lot of things into account, looked at several different options, listened to what seems like a lot of advice. So I'm hopeful on that front.

Car is still in the shop, of course. Fingers crossed we get it back this weekend.

Changed up our standing DietToGo order, we're now both doing 5 lunches and dinners/ week. We were already buying yogurt to accommodate my anti corn syrup agenda, now we've got granola to go with it and that's, like, 75% of our breakfasts anyway. Factor in that I'd much rather have fresh eggs than the ones they were giving us and nixing breakfasts seemed like a smart move. Unfortunately, the best place to get yogurt seems to be Raley's, I like the turkey sausage at TJ's, and eggs come from a farm stand so no more one stop shopping, but it's all within about 5 miles of each other, so I'm sure I'll get used to it. Oh, and I get to bake again - muffins and pancakes and so forth, anyway. Hooray, sourdough!

The house is still a mess, but that's pretty low in my priorities right now. Cobwebs are seasonally appropriate.

multipurposegoddess: (Henry)
So, I signed up for this Diet to Go thing, where I tell them what I can't eat and how many calories I want/day and they make me three balanced meals to fit my parameters and get them to my gym twice weekly. Picked up the first set yesterday, which makes today my first full day on the diet.

It all tastes okay, but man, am I starving right now. Breakfast included a Yoplait yogurt that I plan to swap for a different brand as soon as I can get to a store, so maybe this won't happen every day. I'd already decided to add a daily yogurt and coffee with cream and sugar or Splenda, but I am out of both cream and yogurt today. The plan was to hit the grocery store that is right by the gym yesterday after picking up the diet food, but I was wrung out after lifting weights and doing a class and the thought of walking down even one grocery store aisle was just too much.

I did make it to the Post Office beforehand, though. Now if I can get to the bank this afternoon I will be in pretty good shape, errands-wise and can focus on the homefront for the rest of the week. With a little luck, this not cooking will let me get through kitchen cleaning a lot faster and I can turn my attention to getting the rest of the house more like I want it. We shall see.

Love Letters at the Cabaret in Martinez tonight. I'm looking forward to it. The last thing we saw there was kind of weak, but that was more the choice of material than the performers and Love Letters is supposed to be good.

Sigh. Ate my lunch while I was typing this up. Still hungry.
multipurposegoddess: (Default)
What was happening with me yesterday? Oh, right:


  • 19:02 I seem to have successfully hidden from the world all weekend. Wasn't actually a goal, per se, but it happens sometimes, trying or not. #fb

Automatically shipped by LoudTwitter

Henry had his Men's Spiritual Retreat this weekend (which sounds like it was just what he needed, he even met some guys from Suisun that he didn't already know) and i had plans to do all kinds of stuff with my alone time, but I ended up lying around not feeling very well. Which may be just what I needed, as it turns out.
multipurposegoddess: (Default)
What was happening with me yesterday? Oh, right:

  • 17:14 Donated some $$ to CA State Parks in hopes that we will still have state parks after tomorrow. Sigh.
  • 18:08 Earthquake. Epicenter between here and Rio Vista. 2.9 - I wasn't certain it *was* an earthquake until I checked the site #fb
  • 18:15 Mouse! Oh, cats, why do you bring your prey inside and then let it loose, why? It's under the sofa that I AM SITTING ON RIGHT NOW!
  • 18:32 That's 9 mi ESE of me :) RT @sfearthquakes: Hey. A 2.9 quake just happened 9 mi WNW of Rio Vista, CA. bit.ly/UqHi3
  • 18:35 Mouse has disappeared. I am choosing to believe that it escaped back to the outside.
Automatically shipped by LoudTwitter

State parks Foundation wants me to go to the hearing because I am in the "greater Sacramento area" today. Not gonna happen.

Mouse turned up this morning underneath the Wii Fitness Balance Board. AFter I had done my Body Test, poor mouse must have been terrified. It's outside now, but the cats keep poking underneath everything in case another one turns up...
multipurposegoddess: (Default)
What was happening with me yesterday? Oh, right:

  • 13:22 Denied
  • 13:35 Completely lacking in ticket buying strategies. This'll be fun.
Automatically shipped by LoudTwitter

Spent all day yesterday kind of moping around and not getting much done, and thus feeling bad about not getting anything done and wondering why I was on top of things on Monday and yesterday not so much, WTF was up with that? And my eyes were all kind of swollen and bloodshot and felt basically as if I had been crying a whole lot so my brain was all "Um, body, are we sad? Do I need to figure out what we are sad about? Let me try" all day, which is never good, because even when the answer is "No, no, everything is fine, it's just allergies or something" good old brain will find something to worry about.

Anyway, eventually DH came home and offered to help me close windows and I told him I was opening windows because I was hot, wasn't he hot? and he felt my forehead and declared me Actually Sick, which made me feel much better, really.

So, taking it easy today.
multipurposegoddess: (Default)
What was happening with me yesterday? Oh, right:


  • 10:18 Have not settled on an agenda for the day.

Automatically shipped by LoudTwitter

Heh. And I never really did. Watched birds, watched TV, moved some laundry around, set up RSS fees in Mail, bought some kitchen things from Amazon, decided not to put the garbage and recycling out while it was raining (recycling bin is just an open bin), finished off the Thai leftovers from Saturday, bemoaned once again not making it to the Crossword Puzzle Tournament (next year!). All pretty pleasant but not so interesting to recount.

Profile

multipurposegoddess: (Default)
multipurposegoddess

February 2019

S M T W T F S
     12
3456789
10111213141516
17181920212223
242526 2728  

Syndicate

RSS Atom

Most Popular Tags

Style Credit

Expand Cut Tags

Expand All Cut TagsCollapse All Cut Tags